it's not easy.. but that's his second..
and if the parents cannot handle it, they should not have..
simple as that..
the children deserve better.
Bear, that is not fair.
Children, below the ages of 4, are at the most difficult because
they are difficult to predict and to control. You generally
need about 1.5 adult to 1 such child.
Some parents have it differently, because their first child may
be easy, and they suddenly have a difficult 2nd child. So
they were unprepared and needed extra help.
For my sister's case, she had a difficult first
child.....collicky and OCD. They were both even considering
to not have a 2nd child.
The neice was thankfully a angel compared to her brother and it
was easier the 2nd time around.
But even with me and the china nanny with her. Her 1st
year was kinda accident prone too. A bat of an eyelid and
'bong!' she hit her head or was pushed down by her brother.
Even just last week, when I was workign at Wild wild wet.
I was supposed to be supervising the new staffs for the 2nd
party......instead I had to get myself involved with a 2 year old
in the water because 2 year olds dont listen to instructions,
refused to be held, refused to be refused on whatever he wants to
do. The parents thankfully let me handle him while they sat
and get some relief chitchatting with other parents and looking at
us from far.
